When you are in a relationship with someone, you often want to take their side in an argument. You feel that if you disagree with them, you might be betraying their trust. You feel that you want to be loyal to them. However, when it comes to your relationship with God, he needs to be your principal focus, and your principal loyalty.
If someone disagrees with what God is asking you to do, if your principal loyalty is to God, you will ask the Holy Spirit Of God to determine what you should do, and to guide your actions. When we rely on God's Holy Spirit, there is no disloyalty, other than to Satan, and we owe Satan no loyalty. We owe him no loyalty because he betrayed us from the beginning, and has never promised loyalty. If your loyalty is to Satan, you should ask God to relieve you of your loyalties and obligations to his kingdom.