The notion that one must be celibate until married is one that has existed since the dawn of creation. The only intimacy occurred between individuals who were committed to having a long term, forever relationship. That the times have changed does not mean that the nature of relationships should change. In fact, the times suggest that today there is even more reason to exercise caution.
When two people are intimate, either physically or mentally, their auras become intertwined in such a way that they can have an emotional effect on each other. If one person is sad, the other can experience sadness. In intimate relationships, the connection is much stronger than in mere familial relationships. If you tend to be on an emotional roller coaster, it may be because of intimate connections that need to be broken in order for you to become stable emotionally.
The Lord God Almighty El Shaddai