When you have a relationship with someone who seems to have another relationship that is contrary to what is best, your first thought is to challenge the person about their relationship. Your second thought should be to challenge yourself about your relationship with the person.
The ether knows all of the interactions that have taken place in the world. The ether knows when interactions should not occur. It is time that we begin to ask the ether when, and if, certain interactions are appropriate, or inappropriate. Shame the ether in you into doing what it was designed to do—notify you about problem relationships.
Ask the ether in you now whether your current interaction with a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, colleague, or best friend is appropriate or inappropriate. Ask the ether in you why, or why not. Decide now that you will make any necessary changes, so that all of your interactions are appropriate.
The Lord God Almighty El Shaddai